? What is Love with out pain or how can relationships bloom without both people going through the same pain or emptiness. marriage can’t always be sunshine you both mess up make mistakes cus ,call names untill one day if you get lucky and boom you forget your emotions and ideas and worry about the other u don’t care about what they did you just care about their smile .2 equal people equally messed up go through war only to learn mercy unconditional love and peace.thats why u don’t give up on someone. Life is happiness it’s about how much you grow before eternity. love , forgive, laugh, let your light shine not through words or deeds but through mercy and compassion healing let’s go time is short love all and praise God for everything